The foundation upon which all else sits is RESPECT.

MUTUAL RESPECT is what sustains any long term relationship between couples.

If you doubt for even one second what I am saying, then take away the repsect and let's see just how long this state of affairs is going to continue with contempt and well deserved mutual contempt and disrespect for one another.

This is when they come to me.

And I am supposed to fix this?

Yea, sure ---